The other day, I wrote about how yoga can help your libido and sex life so today I just wanted to add to that. Here are some yoga poses than can better the performance in bed.

Don't just jump into it! Make sure you read the end of the post too instead of just gawking at the pictures.

The Duo Downward Dog



Duo Butterfly



Dunking for Apples



Now before you guys jump into these positions thinking it’s going to lead to sex, here’s a few things you have to keep in mind:

- If you’re a beginner (or not flexible at all), make sure you ease into these. If it hurts then you’re doing something wrong!
- Get to a quiet yet big enough area to do these positions so you can’t get disrupted from others
- Wear comfortable attire like t-shirts and shorts. No socks, no shoes.
- Lastly, breathe! Nice and slowly through your nose with your belly and not your chest.

Good luck! Hey, don’t thank me. Thank body.aol.com! Also, thank them for the pictures!

Giving birth, ah, what a beautiful experience that is. What might even be better is how you get to that point. Sex, obviously. But nine months is a long time to hold out until the next time, so why not do it while she’s pregnant?

Having sex while a woman is pregnant is actually a lot more common than people think. Of course, people probably tend to have sex towards the beginning months of a pregnancy and slowly fade away when getting closer to delivery. Part of the reason why is the fact that women tend to lose their sex desire late in the pregnancy. I’m not necessarily saying it’s because of the size of the belly but more often than not, it’s the anticipation of having a baby.

But when the woman’s belly swells up and the bigger her breasts gets, those once-easy-and-flexible-sex-positions aren’t exactly the most comfortable like they used to be. Those exciting and dynamite positions could become painful and unpleasant. But again, people have needs! (And I’m not only talking about the men here!)

But some positions you might want to try are:

- Have the woman on top because it takes the pressure off the pregnant belly and it also lets the woman control the push and power of the sex.
- Sideways while facing each other is another good position. It keeps the weight off the pregnant belly and it supports the uterus at the same time.

The last position is only recommended towards the beginning months of pregnancy. When the woman is lying on her back, but supposedly it’s not recommended after about the fourth month of pregnancy. Honestly, I would not test out this theory either. (Plus, I’m a guy, if I get pregnant, there’s a whole different problem I would have to worry about!)

But they say a woman should stop lying on her back because the weight of the uterus could block blood vessels that supply your leg and uterus.



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So I started my account in digg.com a couple weeks ago and I've been actively participating and I saw this picture of sex positions for the 'lonely' that I had to put on here.

Don't worry, it's still appropriate to view at the office or wherever you work... even though we know you're not actually working. Hope you enjoy cause I thought it was hilarious!



If you're going to try these positions because you're lonely, please do it at your own discretion. And if you catch a cramp or pull a hamstring or something, that's YOUR fault! LOL... good luck!





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Since it seems that ‘sex positions’ are very popular, but people seem too embarrassed to request it, I decided to take the initiative to write some more. I mean, if you’re a sex marathon yourself and you think you’ve tried everything, well, you haven’t.

Doggy Leg Lift – have the woman assume the doggystyle position and have the guy lift up one of her legs and hold it to his thigh. This position is good for deeper penetration and it will also let the guys’ testicles gently tap against the woman’s clitoris.

Missionary with some cushions (and I don’t mean a juicy ass) – have the woman lie down with her legs bent (exactly like she’s about to do some sit-ups) and feet on the bed. Then place some pillows underneath her ass or lower back area. Supposedly, this helps with deep penetration and clitoral stimulation.

Spooning Split – you know what ‘spooning’ is, right? Well, I hope so. And if you’re a woman, I’m pretty sure you know what that means. The good thing about this position is the fact that the woman feels extremely affectionate and the guy can maneuver to get various pressure pleasure points.

69 position plus 1 – 69, everyone imagines oral sex, simultaneously. Rather than alter the position, just alter the techniques to it. First, instead of laying one on top of each other, lay side by side instead. Now, the guy can feel free to use fingers, oral, penetrate, basically do whatever it takes to make her lose control but don’t overdo it… she may not be able to focus on your oral pleasures.

More to come… cause I know everyone loves those different and experimental positions!



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Growing up, I must’ve heard this numerous times; how men are horrible at giving oral pleasures to their women, and how much their women complain about it to other women. Take for an example, the movie Old School, right before the car full of women see Will Ferrell streaking. Well, the car full of women was just complaining about how their husband/boyfriends are ‘orally challenged.’

Yeah, not a good thing.

I also figured since I wrote about ‘Tips and Tricks for ‘His’ Best Oral Sex Ever!’ why not write one for women too?

First, let’s do a ‘tongue to lips.’ Any licking or gentle sucking around the lips/clit is the start. Make sure to start slowly. It’s like a mixture of teasing and pleasing, and on top of that, women will hall under your oral spells! They say to pretend the vagina is like a scoop of ice cream and lick, lick away… but nice and slow.

Use that tongue muscle and maneuver! I read somewhere that the tongue is the strongest muscle, I doubt that but I’m sure if you’re giving great oral to your woman, she’ll definitely think so! I mean, you have full control of your tongue and it’s naturally lubricated with saliva. Try sticking your tongue in and out of her vagina but make sure you return the clit, because the stimulation there usually triggers the orgasm.

Let’s step it up a notch. Make sure you pay attention to her reactions and body language, it’ll tell you all you should know. But try sucking on her slit, and make out with it, basically French kiss it. Again, pay attention to her reactions because that will probably determine if you should be aggressive, slow it down, tease her but definitely please her! Ok, now combine the sucking and French kissing with inserting a finger or two inside her. Yes, almost guaranteed orgasm and she probably leg-wrap your head.

If you’re good, I’m sure you’ve been there and done that. I mean, a woman loves a man who can multi-task.

Be confident. Go in there knowing you’re the man. If you’re feeling rather awkward and scared, more than likely that’s going to affect her as well.

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Get a position you feel comfortable with as well as her. The most common and useful is when the woman is laying on her back and the guy is on his stomach with his arms wrapped underneath her legs as they’re separated. I would also suggest the woman being on top and sitting on the guys face, but um, is she’s REALLY enjoying it, you may suffocate.

This may not be the guide to oral sex but it’s definitely a great start, especially if you’ve never pleased your woman in that way before.




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I’m not sure who it was, but someone searched my blog for ‘riding’ sex positions so I decided to write about it. If it was you, here you go whoever it was. I hope that person actually comes back to my blog!

These ‘riding’ positions are for women who like to take charge and be on top. Show them guys who wears the pants in the relationship! Well, technically, show them who doesn't wear the pants!

The first position: The ‘Cowgirl’ – in which the woman is on top of the guy and riding him like a horse. Usually, the woman is facing the guy and has him saddled up to ride! YYYEEEEEEE HA!

The ‘cowgirl’ position can also feature the woman slightly leaning back and the guy helps her go up and down. So, she can get that extra bumpy ride.

(I apologize for no illustrations, but due to advertisers’ guidelines, I cannot post them)

You can turn the woman around as well, so her back is facing the guy. That’s called the ‘reverse cowgirl.’

Next is the ‘Lotus position’ – it is said that you have to be somewhat flexible and also it takes getting used to for this position. But basically, the guy would sit with his legs in an intertwined crossing where the right foot rests on the left thigh and the left foot rests on the right thigh, with soles facing up. The woman would basically sit on top of him while he’s in that position. It’s called the ‘Lotus’ because it resembles how Buddha sits on lotuses.

‘Lap-sitting position’ – is when the guy is sitting on a chair and the woman sits down on him while facing him. Just picture a guy getting a lap-dance at a strip club… it’s exactly like that but instead of dancing, it’s sex, obviously.

This thing called ‘Bermuda Triangle’ – LOL… but the woman is on top with her back facing the guy. Her legs are bent like a triangle shape and she’s leaning back so if you’re looking at it from the side, it’s looks like a triangle.

The ‘Rainbow Arch’ – is when the guy is sitting on a chair and the woman is on top. Though, the woman is leaned all the way back so she basically has her back arched and she’s looking at the sky.

‘Reverse Frog Squat’ – the woman is on top (obviously) with her back facing the guy. She is squat down sort of like how a frog looks, and she uses her legs as leverage to move up and down.

‘Woman on top’ – simple as that. This can be when the woman is on top and the guy and girl are sort of hugging each other while she pushes up and down on him. The guy can also push his pelvis up to meet the woman in the middle.

There are plenty of positions to come… stay tuned!



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I know for a fact that certain women have never gotten an orgasm from their sex partner before. What’s worse (speaking as a guy) is that a lot of women, if not all, have faked an orgasm at least once in their life because their sex partner just couldn’t fill their need to climax. Well, for the fellas that’s reading this, here’s some help for you! And for the ladies, I know you know what you like, but just incase there’s something that you forgot, here’s a reiteration that you can teach your man!

Ok, I know a lot of people who dance. If you’ve gone to the club before, you’ve seen this. It’s called ‘the Grind.’ Now picture that in your head for a second. Some ladies are probably like “hell yeah, I know how to grind my ass off!”

Freaks. Freaky freaks I tell you. That’s not a bad thing, just stating the obvious.

But if you pictured yourself or someone else doing ‘the Grind’ then there’s the first thing. Basically, you want to increase the pressure exerted on her clitoris, by rotating your hips just like ‘grinding’ in the clubs. Try to push against the front of her groin with the area right above the dick. Lastly, try rocking back and forth or side to side, that’s definitely a good way to start.

Next, forget your fingers – thumbs up is all you need! They say the thumb is the most important part of the hand – to grab stuff, pick up things but also to use during sex! If you switched positions, try having the guy lay on his back and the girl on top facing him. The guy wants to tighten up his stomach muscles and tilt his pelvis upward, maybe even put a pillow under his butt. Then put your hand around her pubic area and rub your thumb on her clitoris. Stimulate her clit while she rides you like a bull!

Take the “T” – have the woman lay on her back while the guy lies at a right angle to her, so basically you form the letter “T.” If the woman is flexible, (cause you know what they say about women with flexibility! – um, they can do splits?) this is a good position for deep penetration, and giving the guy or girl an opportunity for manual stimulation on the clit. Double the action means double the reaction to help you on the way to that orgasm. Yes, the big “OOOOOOOO… yes!”

Up and Down – No! Go diagonal! Let the woman lay on her back with her legs together. The guy should get on top and put her legs over one shoulder. The guy, instead of being directly lined up with her, wants to be kind of diagonal. That’s how you can ‘hit’ the G-spot.

There you go!

I also looked up why we need orgasms, besides the fact it feels good. According to Dr. Madhav Pakhare, a sexologist, he says “Besides the explosive burst of pleasure that it is, an orgasm burns calories, calms junk food cravings, relieves tension, helps you sleep better and relaxes your muscles.”

Also, feel free to read ‘Keep the Doctor Away - Have an Orgasm a Day!’ for additional information on orgasm.

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I'm not a sex advisor, but I'll find out things about sex that will interest you! For the ladies that want to spice up the sexual relationship with your partner, here's some tips for giving him the undivided 'attention' he may have been waiting for.

First, have you ever seen a guy watch a woman lick a popsicle before? Maybe suck on a lollipop? Shove a whole banana in her mouth? Guys already know what I'm talking about. But for the ladies, next time pay attention, their facial expressions should tell you everything. Incase you never get to see it, it's like a face in awe mixed with a face like a little kid in a candy store.

1. But speaking of foods, that's the first tip: Get some food and mix it up. Try something sweet like some cream, honey, yogurt. Most foods are safe to smear all over the genitals but please... PLEASE make sure NO SPICY ONES! You'll burn off any feeling of sensation down there. Also, if you're using condoms for oral, make sure to stay away from oily foods. They tend to break down the latex of the condom.

2. Do 'It' somewhere daring: Of course, this doesn't only relate to oral, any type of sex - it's the thrill of possibly being caught and the spontaneousness of it all. That's what makes it 'daring.' But some daring places to possibly try it is while he/she is driving. Just make sure the person that's receiving the oral attention is still paying attention to the road! We don't want to see you on the news "man and woman gets into a car accident because of oral sex... both in serious condition..."

But some other places to try it without the risk of getting into a car accident are: in the bathroom at a party, on the balcony with only the oral receiver can be visible by standing, maybe even at the movie theaters during the movie...

3. Lollipop Licking!: If you've watched a good porn before, you've probably seen this technique. When the woman is giving him head, she lifts his dick up and starts at the bottom (right underneath the dick but right above the nutsack) and licks all the way up to the tip.

4. Possible Deepthroat: A lot of women assume you have to stick the whole dick in your mouth... wrong! If you can do it, that's all the better. If not, try to fit as much in your mouth as you can. Who knows? Maybe you'll deepthroat and you won't even know it! But I know for a fact that your man will be impressed!

5. Vacuum Effect: I'm not saying go 'suck' it up, but use your hands. Place your hand on the base of the dick like you're holding it and stroke it... then add your mouth to the tip of the dick while jerking it. At this point, you're giving him head and stroking it at the same time.

6. Swirls: Feel free to us your tongue! Do some swirls all around the tip cause that's where the guys get the most sensation!

7. Take control: Get him when he leasts inspects it. Start by kissing him, rubbing him, then drop to your knees and pull his dick out and start working on that 'job.' Try no-hands, maybe look up at him at give him that look 'do you like it baby?'

8. Back Him Up and Upside Down: Lay on the bed, couch, whatever... but make sure your laying on your back with your head kind of off the bed. Basically, you're giving him oral sex upside down. The oral receiver should be doing the thrusting motions but the oral giver will be the guider as she uses her hands on his hips (or something equivalent) to push him in and out. You don't want to choke there!

9. Meditating Balls: One of the sexiest things is looking like you want to be down there. So why not try exploring other things like playing with his balls. Try licking them, humming a tune on them, maybe even jiggle his balls a little bit.

10. The Infamous 'Rimjob': Most of you guys probably won't try this if you've read my Rimjob Kiss story in the Funny Sex Stories - But True section, but just incase you do. Try giving some oral anal stimulation by licking, or inserting a stiff tongue into the anal passage. The area is highly sensitive. If you're worried about the germs or whatever, you can try putting a piece of plastic wrap as a barrier between you and the area.

Good luck with your 'job.'

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This is part 1 of 'Sex in the Car,' the 'The Best Positions' edition.

If you do not own a car, truck, school bus or anything you can drive that's not a lawnmower, this isn't for you. But don't let that get you down, let's hope at some point you try this! Rent a car sometime! (Please try this at your own risk though cause if anything happens, I don't want to be blamed!)

If you have a Mini Cooper or something small, these positions will be extremely uncomfortable but it's still do-able. Ha! Get it, 'do' able?

1. Dashboard Rub-down! - this position will be a favorite to many of you who are going to try it for the first time. The guy will be sitting upright on the passenger side seat and the girl will be on top of him facing the windshield. She should lean forward with her hand on the dashboard while the guy places his hands on her hips to help with the hydraulics (bouncing up and down!). Soon enough the heat from the passionate love (or one-night stand) will get you guys all sweaty, particularly the girl... then you can get your dashboard cleaned while having sex! Hey, it's called 'Dashboard Rub-down' for a reason!

The downfall to the 'Dashboard Rub-down' is the fact that it's the highest 'get caught' position. Because both individuals are facing the same way with no other set of eyes to see if someones coming from behind.

2. I'm goin' goin' back, back to the backseat, backseat - who didn't see this one coming? This is the roomiest position (that's if you don't have a two-seater car) and gives you more options on what you can do. The guy can seat down and the girl can be on top or the girl can lay down and the guy can be on top. Simple as that! Plus, if you hear any noises or see people walking towards you, it's quick and easy to just duck down really quick.

3. Four on the Floor Makes It Four Times More the Score - ok, it's only called 'Four on the Floor' but whatever. This takes place in the backseat area, but what you want to do here is push the two front seats up as far as they go. Both the guy and girl are on their hands and knees facing the back window. (Kind of like doggystyle - on all four)

The downfall is it's cramped and you have to be somewhat flexible or it'll get very uncomfortbale after a while.

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I'm sure many of you have already tried this before. It may not be the best sex you're going to have, but it's somewhat adventurous. But all and all, hopefully you'll try anything at least once.



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