I’m sure I’m not the only person who’s heard this before, but I heard that most men would love to have sex with virgins. I mean, I know a lot of people that say that so I decided to ask them why. (And this is EXCLUDING my personal answers, thank you very much!)

I think out of all the guys that I asked, everyone mentioned that they would want to be with a virgin simply because they (the virgins) don’t have anyone to compare it to. This is true on so many levels because, in their minds, they can’t be compared with the size of the ‘equipment’ their working with, how long they last and obviously, to a virgin, it has to be the best sex they’ve ever had. Guys think they can be ‘the man’ and pleasure them like they’ve never been pleasured before. He doesn’t have to compete with past lovers and that releases some insecurities. And I know every female is saying ‘hell yeah, ALL men are insecure!’

On the other hand, the best sex could also be the worst. But let’s not even get into that! Okay, maybe just a little.

It’s funny how we all compare. One of my friends told me he knew a girl for years and she’s had a different sex partner almost every year for about 5 years. And supposedly, each partner she’s been with has been “the best sex” partner she’s ever been with.

See how that works? It went from the best, who was also the first, to possibly the worst through comparison.

And yes, my friend was thinking twice about being “the best” in bed because his girlfriend has been with someone else before. Should he ask? Probably not. But if his woman was a good girlfriend, she would lie even if he wasn’t the best.

In addition to being compared, a lot of guys don’t want to think their woman has been with someone else. I mean, what if a woman has been with 367 guys before, sadly enough, that may possibly change the outlook of someone’s relationship if they found that out.

Then there’s the emotional level of making love, or simply having sex. Everyone remembers their first. Guys (at least the ones I talked to) want to have that sense of accomplishment, and be remembered, like go down in history. Well, at least a woman’s history.

This topic just like any other that I’ve written about, I may have to come back to because we definitely know that there’s a lot more.

I mean, one friend mentioned in their corny Star Trek term, “Guys want to go where no man has ever gone before.”



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