What?! Men and Women Make Sex Mistakes?! Human beings make mistakes in general?! Eh, I guess that’s why we all use ‘I’m only human’ as an excuse.
But I read this article from msnbc.com about the ‘common’ mistakes men and women make regarding their sex lives. I don’t fully agree with a few of them, but I’m sure if we all agreed on everything in life, it’d be… boring.
So, Tracey Cox, iVillage sex and relationship expert, and sex therapist Ian Kerner describes the ‘common’ mistakes made in a bedroom… or hotel room… or in the laundry room… or in the restaurant bathroom… well, you get the point, ‘sex’ mistakes!
First, both sexes fall into routine and let sex become just physical. According to Kerner, “There are two types of sexual arousal — mental and physical. In the beginning of a relationship, we have no shortage of sexy thoughts and feelings that turn us on and create a sense of sexual anticipation, but after a while the mental component can easily fade and we rely on physical stimulation. We know each other’s bodies and we know how to get where we’re going, but we don’t know how to appreciate the journey anymore. That’s when it becomes time to introduce some new routes and paths to pleasure.”
Secondly, both sexes miss the point that your sex life is a function of your overall relationship. It takes a great relationship to have a great sex life. So, if your relationship is on a rocky road or you guys are staying together ‘for the kids’ more than likely you’re going to build up cobwebs down there.
Third, both sexes assume that a good sex life is measured based on quantity than quality. I have to agree with this. Because I’m sure a lot of people who just entered a relationship are like humping bunnies, hump like five times a day but eventually relationships change, people change, people get busier in life, etc.
But like I was saying, wouldn’t you love to have the better sex each time you have a session, but not as often, rather than mediocre sex every other hour? Exactly, lol… pervs! (just playing) But you’ll have something to crave for!
But those are the top three ‘common’ mistakes men and women make in their sex lives, according to Tracey Cox and Ian Kerner, and well, me.
If you don’t like this article, topic, my blog, or, um… me, in general… well, hey, ‘I’m only human’ What can I say?
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But I read this article from msnbc.com about the ‘common’ mistakes men and women make regarding their sex lives. I don’t fully agree with a few of them, but I’m sure if we all agreed on everything in life, it’d be… boring.
So, Tracey Cox, iVillage sex and relationship expert, and sex therapist Ian Kerner describes the ‘common’ mistakes made in a bedroom… or hotel room… or in the laundry room… or in the restaurant bathroom… well, you get the point, ‘sex’ mistakes!
First, both sexes fall into routine and let sex become just physical. According to Kerner, “There are two types of sexual arousal — mental and physical. In the beginning of a relationship, we have no shortage of sexy thoughts and feelings that turn us on and create a sense of sexual anticipation, but after a while the mental component can easily fade and we rely on physical stimulation. We know each other’s bodies and we know how to get where we’re going, but we don’t know how to appreciate the journey anymore. That’s when it becomes time to introduce some new routes and paths to pleasure.”
Third, both sexes assume that a good sex life is measured based on quantity than quality. I have to agree with this. Because I’m sure a lot of people who just entered a relationship are like humping bunnies, hump like five times a day but eventually relationships change, people change, people get busier in life, etc.
But like I was saying, wouldn’t you love to have the better sex each time you have a session, but not as often, rather than mediocre sex every other hour? Exactly, lol… pervs! (just playing) But you’ll have something to crave for!
But those are the top three ‘common’ mistakes men and women make in their sex lives, according to Tracey Cox and Ian Kerner, and well, me.
If you don’t like this article, topic, my blog, or, um… me, in general… well, hey, ‘I’m only human’ What can I say?
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