To all the guys out there: If you want more sex? Do some laundry, mob the floor, wash the dishes!
Well, maybe it won't help everyone but it's still an interesting fact that guys tend to get more sex from their women when they do chores compared to guys who don't do.
'Yeah right' you say? I said the same thing! But I read this study that was published in the September issue of Journal of Family Issues that "research indicates that women have more sex with men who do more work around the house than with those who don't do their share."
The interesting part about these statistics are the fact that live-in boyfriends tend to do more chores than actual husbands. That's probably why people say you have less sex when you're married... because guys don't do their damn chores! Now I'm not saying to the ladies out there to not get married, but hey, if you want some chores done, then... well... actually, I'm not even going to touch that one.
But I'm not doubting the marriages of men and women (even though the divorce rate is pretty high), but according to Neil Chethik's book 'VoiceMale: What Husbands Really Think About Their Marriages, Their Wives, Sex, Housework and Commitment,' wives were less likely to havr affairs, couples were less likely to consider separation, and couples were more likely to say they were happily married if the husband did more chores than in other marriages.
Phew! I just cleaned my computer desk, vacuumed, scrubbed down the stove AND washed the dishes! I can't wait!
But here's some other useful information from what some experts say:
Well, maybe it won't help everyone but it's still an interesting fact that guys tend to get more sex from their women when they do chores compared to guys who don't do.
'Yeah right' you say? I said the same thing! But I read this study that was published in the September issue of Journal of Family Issues that "research indicates that women have more sex with men who do more work around the house than with those who don't do their share."
The interesting part about these statistics are the fact that live-in boyfriends tend to do more chores than actual husbands. That's probably why people say you have less sex when you're married... because guys don't do their damn chores! Now I'm not saying to the ladies out there to not get married, but hey, if you want some chores done, then... well... actually, I'm not even going to touch that one.But I'm not doubting the marriages of men and women (even though the divorce rate is pretty high), but according to Neil Chethik's book 'VoiceMale: What Husbands Really Think About Their Marriages, Their Wives, Sex, Housework and Commitment,' wives were less likely to havr affairs, couples were less likely to consider separation, and couples were more likely to say they were happily married if the husband did more chores than in other marriages.
Phew! I just cleaned my computer desk, vacuumed, scrubbed down the stove AND washed the dishes! I can't wait!
But here's some other useful information from what some experts say:
- A man doesn't have to do exactly 50 percent of the housework to please his wife. If he just does enough so that she feels supported, she'll be happier
- These experts aren't saying that women are consciously trading sex for housework, but that seeing their men do more of it puts them in a better mood in general
- Wives were less likely to have affairs, couples were less likely to consider separation or divorce, and couples were more likely to say they were happily married if the husband did more chores than in other marriages
- Men doing housework is, evidently, a kind of aphrodisiac for women
Ok, the last one isn't exactly a fact, more of a theory. But let me ask the women: If you see your man cleaning up your house, do you think that's sexy? And to the guys: Why not try out this theory? What do you have to lose? You'll have a cleaner house, great sex or maybe both? Shit, even better... great sex WHILE cleaning the house!
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